Artist Selina (Ren Jiaxuan) gave birth to her son Cashew Guo in September. Not long after her 42nd birthday, she was immersed in the joy of raising children. However, she recently revealed that Cashew Guo had fluid in his lungs when he was born and had to stay warm for many days. The box made her blame herself and said that she only cared about giving birth gracefully, but little did she know that her son was suffering from such pain, which made her so sad that she broke down and cried.
▼Selina’s baby was born. (Picture/reproduced from Selina’s Facebook)
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Selina revealed the current situation of parenting in the latest podcast “Welcome to the End”. She said that although she had fulfilled her life dream of giving birth gracefully, giving birth was a “a bit profound and sad process.” She recalled that she had just given birth, When Little Cashew was lying on her chest, she noticed a triangular hollow on her son’s chest near his ribs. At that time, Selina thought to herself, “Why does he look so much like Iron Man?” She didn’t notice that her son was having difficulty breathing at that time.
Selina said that not long after her son was born, he was scheduled for a routine newborn checkup, and it was discovered that he had pulmonary effusion. At first she thought her son would just come back to the nursery after a simple checkup, but ended up staying on the floor of the incubator. After giving birth, she felt very tired because she had taken a lot of medicine, but she woke up not long after. Xiao Xu said that after being notified by the hospital that little cashew had fluid in her lungs, she also underwent X-rays, blood draws, white blood cell tests and other tests, which made her so sad that she collapsed and cried, but because she had to be in confinement, she did not dare to cry too hard. , struggling with emotions every day.
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Selina choked up while recalling this process on the podcast. She thought the hardest part was to give birth to her son, but seeing her son born had to face everything by herself, she felt powerless. Seeing the tiny body covered in It was full of pinholes, tubes, respirators, and artificial skin, and it was even more heartbreaking. I only cared about my own elegant delivery, but I didn’t expect my son to face these pains.
Selina said that during her son’s treatment, she did not dare to search the Internet because she was afraid that she would have random thoughts. However, her friend later comforted her that the chance of newborns having hydropulmonary effusion was 40%, which was not low in the first place. But when she heard the reaction, she felt ” He (son) is not the 60%.” Ella also comforted him, saying that Jinbao also had hydrops in the lungs and meconium when he was born. Later, he could only say, “My son was born with high standards and lived in a single room by himself. ” to comfort myself. Fortunately, I have recovered now.
(Cover image/reproduced from Selina IG)
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